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Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Throwback Thursday: Prometheus Re-Watch



For the first time since the midnight release, I watched Prometheus. I loved the film the first time I watched it; I found it thought provoking and an interesting concept of how life began, and even a realistic representation of what science could evolve into.

In case you couldn’t guess, SPOILERS.

The only issue I had was that some things about the Engineers made no sense to me. Having the knowledge that this is a prequel to the Alien franchise (which I have never seen, sorry…) many parts of the story don’t seem to correlate to Alien. In the comfort of my own bed, my boyfriend and I discussed the movie in the context of other people’s reviews and in the relation to Alien (my boyfriend loves them). 

The Opening


I was told that people have different interpretations of opening scene. My first (and then second watch) made me think the opening was an Engineer left behind to create life. This was done by his body breaking down to his DNA, allowing for evolution to occur. Any other interpretation is lost on me. What else could even be occurring? He didn’t know what he was drinking? They didn’t plan on evolution or humanity? If you have a different idea, please explain it in a comment. It seems to me that reviews/viewers are overanalyzing the opening when it was fairly cut and dry.

Sexualization


If you are new to my blog, please note that I will almost always need to discuss the representation of women. In this movie, the women aren’t at all sexualized. 

The relationship between Elizabeth and Holloway isn’t shown by sex, it’s shown through mutual respect, shy smiles, and hand holding. Then when they have sex it’s a plot point. It isn’t done out of a need for the audience to see a naked woman. 

The women are also in space suits/outfits that are equal to the men’s. So often in science fiction, for example some of the outfits in the Mass Effect series, the women are in space suits/armor that has boob cupping pieces…which is in no way realistic. Female astronauts and females in the military do not have special women only uniforms, they have their size. 

However, Elizabeth Shaw is naked in the film again. I bet some readers thought I’d forget that.  But if you see a woman giving herself a C-section and think it is sexual, then you need to see a doctor. Your mind is fucked up. It might be strange to some women that this was a plot point but I think it shows her strength as a woman in a womanly way. Too often feminists want women to basically be men. Shaw experiences something that men and even most women understand but cannot comprehend. As David says, she has an amazing survival instinct. Most women would not survive the physical pain let alone the emotional pain she is experiencing. She’s infertile and her lover just died after impregnating her with a creepy baby. That’s a lot to take in.

In conclusion, I would rate Prometheus as 4 out of 5, losing points for the slight confusion it causes. 

Other things to note:
Weyland is Guy Pearce! WHAT!
What did David ask the Engineer? I need to know.
Also, so many problems would have been solved if everyone would just be nice to David. AND if they had given him more to do during the two years that everyone else just slept. Boredom and resentment is not good combination. In the words of my favorite Youtube celebrity Sassy Gay Friend, “Look at your life. Look at your choices.”

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Wet Wednesday: Why I Plan to Show My Future Babies The To Do List


A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.


The moment I heard about The To Do List I had plans to go see it. Aubrey Plaza’s humor is enough to make me watch any movie or TV show, but add to that the fact that it is about her completing a sex to-do list? There aren’t even words.

After I saw the film, I realized that showing this film to a teenager would be the perfect way to avoid the awkward sex conversation that all parents fail at. I learned about sex three ways: playing Barbies, playing the Sims, and the menstrual cycle talk my elementary school gave to 4th grade girls. I don’t think my parents even talked to me about sex. My mom sort of did when I started taking birth control. But it was nothing like Aubrey Plaza’s character had with her mom. 

I would like to be that open with my children, but I don’t see myself ever being comfortable enough to hand my daughter a bottle of lube or my son a pack of condoms. Something I’ve felt I would say is, “If you aren’t comfortable going into a store to buy lube, condoms, or the morning after pill yourself; you aren’t ready to have sex.” But truthfully the reason teenagers are uncomfortable buying these products, or even asking their doctor about birth control is that we are taught not to talk sex. Sex is for married couples or just adults in general. But every adult did it before they were adults, so what’s the big deal? 

The To Do List is sex positive. It shows boys being as emotional about sex and relationships as much as girls are said to be, and it shows girls being just as nonchalant about sex and relationships as boys are supposed to be. It’s honest about expectations and questions about what sex is like when you are still learning about it. It’s okay that you didn’t have great sex the first time. And I love that it ends with her having an orgasm with a boy she actually likes, not the creepy “perfect” guy. 

Watching this movie with my son or daughter will be awkward for them, but I think they’ll thank for me it. It’s hilarious and it will show them how I feel about sex and how to talk about it without me having to go into the horrifying details that remind them I have sex with their father. 

I give The To Do List a perfect 5 out of 5. Leave comments and thoughts about my rating and the film itself in the comments.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Mad Men Monday: What the hell are you doing, Don?!

"It's easy to give up something when you're ashamed." 
- Sylvia Rosen, Mad Men
 
 

Um. What are you doing, Don Draper? I hope all of your fans judged you tonight. I'm not sure what this means for you but I was glad when Sylvia finally realized how creepy you were being and ended it. 

Part of me thinks Don knew it was over when he heard Sylvia and her husband arguing, and then just played out the fantasy for as long as he could. Problem is, the fantasy was a creep show. I always thought Don liked powerful women, but maybe he wants the power now? I'm not sure. 

On a lighter note, Joan and I have the same health issues! I was entertained when she said it was just a cyst on her ovary because I have had that happen to me twice. It sucks. Seeing Bob Benson as real human was also fun in this episode.

Overall, this episode of Mad Men confused me. The best thing that came out of it was this GIF: